November 14, 2018 Dear Tower Families, It is with the deepest sadness that we share the news that our friend and Head of School, Tim Delehaunty, died unexpectedly this morning. We are devastated by the loss of our dear colleague. Our entire community will need time to process and mourn. To begin, we ask parents to talk with their children before arriving at school tomorrow. This will give you the opportunity to share this sad news as a family. See below for guidance from our school counselor for helping children process grief.
GUIDANCE FOR HELPING CHILDREN PROCESS GRIEF
Older children often have more ability to understand the finality of death and this can lead to larger conversations about life. However, these same children may then regress to behaviors that seem more appropriate to younger children, such as difficulty concentrating, being overly silly, or holding onto a stuffed animal. Connecting with their friends/peers is often important for older children as well and can be an essential part of their grief process. Encouraging all children to process their emotions is very important. This can be done through talking with you, a teacher, counselor or friend. Doing activities like sports, journaling, or drawing are also appropriate ways of expressing oneself. It is normal for kids to have negative behaviors surface as well. Talking about these behaviors and trying to help your child understand what is underneath their actions is the best way to handle these situations. Included below are some links with more information about how to talk with your children about death.
Sincerely, Dean Sidell Associate Head of School, CFO
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